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    The Pros and Cons of Hookup and Dating Sites

    People are having hot debates regarding online dating in general and specific hookup websites in particular. There are many issues with the industry and it is harder and harder to deny them. However, there are also many good things that also should not be dismissed. Let’s talk about the various advantages and disadvantages of using hookup sites in the modern era.

    Positive Things

    The whole industry would never pop up in existence without solid demand for the product. Initially, people wanted to date someone. Soon, a large portion of those people realized that they wanted to get laid. They did not need a complicated relationship. Modern hookup websites are centred around this specific service: they allow users to find sex partners.

    So why would you need to use these sites?

    • These websites are designed to match people with similar tastes and preferences. At the same time, users of these platforms usually know why they register here. They simply want to find an easy hookup. It eases the process of finding a suitable person. All users want to find and to be found.
    • You don’t need to share any information about yourself or connect your profile to an account in a social network. While you will still show who you are and how you look, you don’t need to share any information that could potentially harm you if leaked.
    • No thots. This slang word penetrated the culture like a sharp needle. There are many girls out there who simply want to milk “sugar daddies” and earn money by “showing the goods” yet staying away from actual contact. If you want to have a real relationship (a short-lived one or a long-term), you need to know that you are not being fooled. Hookup websites are for people who actually want to find sex partners.
    • You don’t even need to leave your house while searching for a hookup. You need to go to a website and message girls that you like. Then, you simply wait for answers. Rinse and repeat. The simplicity and convenience of the process make it much more comfortable for modern users to go on a website instead of wasting time in bars and nightclubs.

    Negative Things

    There are some issues with online dating that are still prevalent. Sadly, these downsides are quite big and may hinder your dating experience.

    • One of the issues is that you may meet a scammer. It could be a person who wants to get the advantage of you by creating a fake account and fooling you. They will try to get money from you. If you do not feel a “connection” or that the girl is trying to avoid an actual date, be careful.
    • The competition in the market is fierce. Websites are fighting for each customer. However, this process did not eliminate weaker competition. Due to the demand, the customer base was simply spread out across hundreds of platforms. It means that monetization is much more aggressive. Sadly, you have to pay for a good online experience.
    • You don’t know your dates personally. The way people behave online can be very different from how they usually behave IRL. It means that many people will be disappointed in their first dates. Unfortunately, you can’t really avoid this issue. You will meet people who seem amazing and interesting while you talk to them via a live chat and who turn out empty and boring when you meet them in real life.

    So Are Hookup Sites Good or Bad?

    There are bad things and good things in everything. However, there is no denying that we are living in the age of the internet and it made its way into every single aspect of human existence. It means that we cannot really run away from the concept of online dating. Let’s hope that it will change and improve! As of right now, we have to use them whether we like them or not.

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    Ecbert Malcom
    Ecbert Malcom
    I am a resident author at Broodle.
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